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SAMANTHA BLUHM
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Spectator or Champion
This isn’t just about the roles we step into — it’s about the weight of expectation that comes with them, and the quiet war we wage inside when we don’t believe we measure up.
Samantha Bluhm
Jun 163 min read


The Parasite Problem
Some things land in your lap you didn’t ask for—chaos, dysfunction, extra weight that’s not yours to carry. But just because it’s in your nest doesn’t mean it belongs in your life. The warbler adapts, evolves, calls for backup. That’s what conscious leaders and resilient co-parents do too. We don't just survive—we build smarter, rise higher, and lead from truth.
Samantha Bluhm
Jun 93 min read


The Real Work[out]
After a break from the gym, fear of inadequacy surfaced. This blog post delves into confronting shame and the false narratives we create about strength and worth. Discover powerful lessons applicable to leadership, co-parenting, and life, emphasizing acceptance, connection, and authentic growth over comparison.
Samantha Bluhm
May 182 min read


The Twix with a Secret
Learn how guilt can transform your live from survival to connection and help you to get unstuck and thrive.
Samantha Bluhm
Apr 143 min read


The Curse of Happy Little Trees
Release perfection and judgment. See with curiosity, not condemnation, and step into your powerful perspective.
Samantha Bluhm
Apr 22 min read


What Facebook Reveals About People
Selfies for Socials You can learn a lot about people when you’re buying and selling things online. In the past week alone, I’ve...
Samantha Bluhm
Apr 13 min read


Question your Beliefs, Transform your Life
I can be a loud and an "out-there" person. I was raised in a home where that was the norm. My ex called it crazy. He believed that...
Samantha Bluhm
Oct 23, 20242 min read


Emotional Freedom from Chaotic Judgment
Focusing on the pursuit of emotional freedom that comes from living above the line [powerful perspective.]
Samantha Bluhm
Jul 22, 20242 min read
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Resiliency Framework [During Chaotic Times]
If you’ve ever known anybody who was color blind, then you’re probably aware of the challenges associated with color-coordinating their...
Samantha Bluhm
Jun 17, 20242 min read


The Quest for Power: How It Fuels Chaos
Peace is not merely the absence of conflict. The pursuit of peace is not passive, but rather a proactive effort to maintain harmony.
Samantha Bluhm
Jun 10, 20242 min read


Chaos & Mental Health
May is mental health awareness month. This post features a piece of my struggle with mental health and the strategies I've used.
Samantha Bluhm
May 27, 20243 min read


Self-Awareness Crushes Chaos
True self-awareness is the spark that ignites personal growth, crushes chaos, and lights the path to inner peace.
Samantha Bluhm
May 20, 20242 min read


De-Escalate Chaos Like a Pro
Strategies to de-escalate behaviors and interactions that lead to conflict with Chaos Creators.
Samantha Bluhm
May 13, 20242 min read


Common Ground Crushes Chaos
Finding common ground is not about erasing differences. It is the process of acknowledging them while intentionally seeking agreement.
Samantha Bluhm
May 6, 20242 min read


"I DON'T KNOW" Chaos
Communication is 55% nonverbal [body language], 38% vocal [tone, pace, volume], and 7% the words we use. Power up the nonverbal!
Samantha Bluhm
Apr 29, 20242 min read


Control Your Feet. Control Your Chaos.
Self awareness is one of the key elements to maintaining emotional control. Here's a powerful tip to help.
Samantha Bluhm
Apr 22, 20242 min read


Validate the Creator, not the Chaos
Politicians. Self-serving Lawyers. Overly-aggressive salespeople. Toxic, controlling ex's ...Chaos Creator's exist everywhere. 👎 While...
Samantha Bluhm
Apr 15, 20242 min read


Let it be. The power of language to shift perspective.
Shifting language from let it go to let it be allows us move through the process of letting it go.
Samantha Bluhm
Mar 31, 20242 min read


Chaos of Indecision
Does being asked what you want for dinner put you into a tailspin? Do you become paralyzed when trying to decide what vehicle to buy? 🚙...
Samantha Bluhm
Mar 25, 20243 min read


Gratitude Conquers Chaos
As I made my way home through the winter wonderland, I was struck by the power of presence. The mediocre attitude that began my morning was
Samantha Bluhm
Mar 18, 20244 min read
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